Have you ever heard the term: cougar? But what does it mean? What is a cougar in dating?
What is a cougar in dating?
A cougar is a woman who is seeking a relationship or sex with significantly younger men.
Some older women are said to be attracted to younger men
“Cougars” are popularly defined as women in their 40s or older who want to date significantly younger men, generally at a 7-year age gap or more.
On some dating sites like Mingle2, there is a defining age for the younger cougar. The age a woman can be considered as a cougar is when she is 30 – as long as the man she dates or the man she is attracted to, is at least seven years younger than she is.
How to attract a cougar – Cougar dating ?
Do you know how to attract a cougar? The list below will help you!
Understand what you want, and be honest about it
Whether you just want sex or a long-term relationship, you should understand what you want, because it will help you figure out your best action to get it. It’s important to be honest with her about what you want. If you are just looking for sex , tell her honestly from the beginning . She might be fine with some no-strings-attached fun.
When you approach an older woman for romantic purposes, you’ll forget the “cougar” stereotype and simply treat her with the same respect.
Show her you are serious in this relationship
If you’re interested in a mature woman, let her know. You should show your serious attitude.
Be ready for rejection and take it gracefully
If a woman rejects you for a love relationship, don’t be a jerk about it. It’s okay to be disappointed and to even express your disappointment in a polite manner. You should not call her names or threaten her.
Be reliable and uncomplicated
Older women (have had enough relationships to know what works and what doesn’t. They don’t want to play games anymore. For example, you can cancel a dating day with younger women but with older women, if you don’t call for days to weeks, they will likely not put up with this behavior.
If you are seeking a long-term relationship with a mature woman, be reliable with your expectations.
When you accept to love a cougar woman, you are prepared for people to judge you. It might not be fair, but if you choose to date an older woman long-term, people will probably judge you. But the important thing is that both of you are happy. When people and friends see this, they will consider again and accept the relationship.
At Mingle2, you are allowed to register for free. Simply create a profile with us, and you are ready to meet cougar women and start messaging with limitless possibilities . . Join us and enjoy your own cougar dating experience!